Why I don't do well in relationships.

• Girls that i dated said that i was too nice[/*:m:22tepfmv]
• They also say i am ugly (but they dated me so what gives?)[/*:m:22tepfmv]
• One of them actually admitted that she liked me for my money.[/*:m:22tepfmv]
• I give too much and expect nothing in return ( which is a good thing, i think.)[/*:m:22tepfmv]
• I don't really show people that i am sad [/*:m:22tepfmv]

So that's how i suck at relationships.

Man, I don't do well either (from ones at school) because I'm not "popular" I'm considered "middle class" this one girl I really liked I got the nerve to ask her out and she said

"Sorry,but no. You are really cute and funny but my friends think going out with a middle kid is wrong."

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU I HAD A CRUSH ON HER FOR 7 YEARS AND FINALLY ASKEE HER OUT AND THAT'S WHAT YOU FUCKING SAY? SCREW YOU POPULARITY

Girls broke up with you because they think you're too nice? What?!

Trust me, if they think that's a problem, then they're the problem. You don't want a girl that thinks that. Keep trying. You'll find someone that is compatible with you at some point

I am popular and I don't act like an asshole. It might be because I smoke weed.

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• Girls that i dated said that i was too nice[/*:m:1udh3cq0]
• They also say i am ugly (but they dated me so what gives?)[/*:m:1udh3cq0]
• One of them actually admitted that she liked me for my money.[/*:m:1udh3cq0]
• I give too much and expect nothing in return ( which is a good thing, i think.)[/*:m:1udh3cq0]
• I don't really show people that i am sad [/*:m:1udh3cq0]

So that's how i suck at relationships.

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Wait till you grow up a bit. I dunno how old you are but being the nice guy has worked for me in college. Granted I was in a committing loving relationship but girls hit on me all the time. In highschool I got nothing until I met my ex.

I don't trust any advice from a guy that has 666 on his picture.

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I don't trust any advice from a guy that has 666 on his picture.

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Lol, how 'bout me? I have a batshit crazy girl on mine.

Ehhhh it fits in to the "weird anime shit" category, so you're good.

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Ehhhh it fits in to the "weird anime shit" category, so you're good.

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I did it because some awesome person custom made it an it looks bad ass lol.

Someone from Pokemon Topaz probably.

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Someone from Pokemon Topaz probably.

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Devil Pokemon are awesome. Also the person who did it is the guy with the devil Azumaril on the forum I just dunno his/her name lol.

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Someone from Pokemon Topaz probably.

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Devil Pokemon are awesome. Also the person who did it is the guy with the devil Azumaril on the forum I just dunno his/her name lol.

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BBC7?

I have the same issues..

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• Girls that i dated said that i was too nice[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• They also say i am ugly (but they dated me so what gives?)[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• One of them actually admitted that she liked me for my money.[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• I give too much and expect nothing in return ( which is a good thing, i think.)[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• I don't really show people that i am sad [/*:m:2uqqr5bl]

So that's how i suck at relationships.

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• These girls are trouble. Looking for a "bad boy". Most likely have had some abuse done during childhood.[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• Hypocrites. If they say you're ugly but date you anyways? They clearly don't know what they want in life or are just using ugly as an excuse to leave you for various girl reasons that only make sense in their mind.[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• Gold digger, move on.[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• Refer to my first answer.[/*:m:2uqqr5bl]
• This is slightly valid. Some girls do want their guys to show emotion(sometimes tears), but do dump you for not showing you're sad? Sounds like they aren't all there. [/*:m:2uqqr5bl]

Seeing as how I feel like I'm the elder in the group (29, remember) and having dated around 30 females, 1/2 of them crazy ass bitches. I would say this. Since you're young, I wouldn't worry about girls right now. Teen girls are so fudged in the head when it comes to relationships, they don't know what they want. On average 1% of all relationships in high school actually succeed. 1% of those actually end up married. Girls at this point only serve as a distraction. Focus on your schooling/extra school activities and don't worry about girls until after school.

Having a GF in high school may seem cool, but you'll end up with more heart break than good times.

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• Girls that i dated said that i was too nice[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• They also say i am ugly (but they dated me so what gives?)[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• One of them actually admitted that she liked me for my money.[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• I give too much and expect nothing in return ( which is a good thing, i think.)[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• I don't really show people that i am sad [/*:m:q214pgpv]

So that's how i suck at relationships.

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• These girls are trouble. Looking for a "bad boy". Most likely have had some abuse done during childhood.[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• Hypocrites. If they say you're ugly but date you anyways? They clearly don't know what they want in life or are just using ugly as an excuse to leave you for various girl reasons that only make sense in their mind.[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• Gold digger, move on.[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• Refer to my first answer.[/*:m:q214pgpv]
• This is slightly valid. Some girls do want their guys to show emotion(sometimes tears), but do dump you for not showing you're sad? Sounds like they aren't all there. [/*:m:q214pgpv]

Seeing as how I feel like I'm the elder in the group (29, remember) and having dated around 30 females, 1/2 of them crazy ass bitches. I would say this. Since you're young, I wouldn't worry about girls right now. Teen girls are so fudged in the head when it comes to relationships, they don't know what they want. On average 1% of all relationships in high school actually succeed. 1% of those actually end up married. Girls at this point only serve as a distraction. Focus on your schooling/extra school activities and don't worry about girls until after school.

Having a GF in high school may seem cool, but you'll end up with more heart break than good times.

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This is Castiel BTW.

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• Girls that i dated said that i was too nice[/*:m:3tiunsnk]
• They also say i am ugly (but they dated me so what gives?)[/*:m:3tiunsnk]
• One of them actually admitted that she liked me for my money.[/*:m:3tiunsnk]
• I give too much and expect nothing in return ( which is a good thing, i think.)[/*:m:3tiunsnk]
• I don't really show people that i am sad [/*:m:3tiunsnk]

So that's how i suck at relationships.

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1. "You can't be a pushover darling!" nice is good, pushover is bad
2. I doubt that
3. At least she was honest :shrug:
4. that's a good thing, yes
5. That COULD be a problem. If something's bothering you, you should try to talk to someone about it.

Dang I am the same as YN .....

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1. "You can't be a pushover darling!" nice is good, pushover is bad
2. I doubt that
3. At least she was honest :shrug:
4. that's a good thing, yes
5. That COULD be a problem. If something's bothering you, you should try to talk to someone about it.

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1.) I am not a pushover~
2.) Maybe i am?
3.) I agree
4.) Yay!
5.) Sorry :/

Communication is key, but so is balance. You don't want to bitch about everything, but you don't want to be silent eithier. My fiancee and I get into fights because I raise concerns, but everything is usually fine a few hours later.

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Communication is key, but so is balance. You don't want to b***h about everything, but you don't want to be silent eithier. My fiancee and I get into fights because I raise concerns, but everything is usually fine a few hours later.

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Ugh, I did it again. It's Castiel.

You know what really helps? Stop thinking about it.

Things like "you're too nice" are things she probably said to get rid of you.. Sorry bro, but there is a chance she just didn't like you anymore and couldn't find an explanation and she was letting you down easy.

As for the looks and the money, screw them. I don't know how old you are, YN, but you will find someone who will be with you, FOR YOU. Someone who will join the Halo tournament instead of being annoyed with you, so to speak. The only thing you should conclude from your list is that you've dated bitches, and this is in no way your list of flaws. Most of these situations the girl probably got past the infatuation-phase and decided you were not for her. This happens, especially when you're young.

Dang, I HATE girls who just break a nice guys' confidence like that. Makes me feel guilty for the entire female species. You're great, Kurt. Fuck'em.

Ugh, why am I suddenly posting as guest? This is Faena.

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Ugh, why am I suddenly posting as guest? This is Faena.

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this whole section keeps people anonymous for the very reason they might be embarrassed about what they post. but to post your name all you have to do is write it down in the username field when you post.

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You know what really helps? Stop thinking about it.

Things like "you're too nice" are things she probably said to get rid of you.. Sorry bro, but there is a chance she just didn't like you anymore and couldn't find an explanation and she was letting you down easy.

As for the looks and the money, screw them. I don't know how old you are, YN, but you will find someone who will be with you, FOR YOU. Someone who will join the Halo tournament instead of being annoyed with you, so to speak. The only thing you should conclude from your list is that you've dated bitches, and this is in no way your list of flaws. Most of these situations the girl probably got past the infatuation-phase and decided you were not for her. This happens, especially when you're young.

Dang, I HATE girls who just break a nice guys' confidence like that. Makes me feel guilty for the entire female species. You're great, Kurt. f**k'em.

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Pretty much this. This happened to me. I have next to no confidence when it comes to women face to face. If i'm talking online, I have all the confidence in the world.

Castiel why do you have BobbyBobber's signature?

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You know what really helps? Stop thinking about it.

Things like "you're too nice" are things she probably said to get rid of you.. Sorry bro, but there is a chance she just didn't like you anymore and couldn't find an explanation and she was letting you down easy.

As for the looks and the money, screw them. I don't know how old you are, YN, but you will find someone who will be with you, FOR YOU. Someone who will join the Halo tournament instead of being annoyed with you, so to speak. The only thing you should conclude from your list is that you've dated bitches, and this is in no way your list of flaws. Most of these situations the girl probably got past the infatuation-phase and decided you were not for her. This happens, especially when you're young.

Dang, I HATE girls who just break a nice guys' confidence like that. Makes me feel guilty for the entire female species. You're great, Kurt. f**k'em.

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I lost faith in love.. Actually :')

I stopped loving people.

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Castiel why do you have BobbyBobber's signature?

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Because it's Havok's signature. I've seen a few Havok members with it. And since I'm a part of Havok now...Well you fill in the blanks :).

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Castiel why do you have BobbyBobber's signature?

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Because it's Havok's signature. I've seen a few Havok members with it. And since I'm a part of Havok now...Well you fill in the blanks :).

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Castiel why do you have BobbyBobber's signature?

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Because it's Havok's signature. I've seen a few Havok members with it. And since I'm a part of Havok now...Well you fill in the blanks :).

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I was gonna post that but I ended up forgetting.

Girls are just fickle, especially when they are teens.

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Girls broke up with you because they think you're too nice? What?!

Trust me, if they think that's a problem, then they're the problem. You don't want a girl that thinks that. Keep trying. You'll find someone that is compatible with you at some point

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You obviously never been in a relationship. (No offense). Ive broken up with girls because their to nice. Its just an awkward relationship. It just seems like they are too desperate for you. Its a good reason to break up.
-BB

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Girls broke up with you because they think you're too nice? What?!

Trust me, if they think that's a problem, then they're the problem. You don't want a girl that thinks that. Keep trying. You'll find someone that is compatible with you at some point

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You obviously never been in a relationship. (No offense). Ive broken up with girls because their to nice. Its just an awkward relationship. It just seems like they are too desperate for you. Its a good reason to break up.
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I disagree completely, nobody can ever be TOO nice. The world needs more nice people and as you grow up girls and guys start to realize that they wish they'd stuck with the nice ones and they begin to regret the decsions of their past, as that happens the nice guys finally start to win.

Exactly. I'm very nice, but I can be assertive when I need to be.
-- GlisXor

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Girls broke up with you because they think you're too nice? What?!

Trust me, if they think that's a problem, then they're the problem. You don't want a girl that thinks that. Keep trying. You'll find someone that is compatible with you at some point

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You obviously never been in a relationship. (No offense). Ive broken up with girls because their to nice. Its just an awkward relationship. It just seems like they are too desperate for you. Its a good reason to break up.
-BB

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I disagree completely, nobody can ever be TOO nice. The world needs more nice people and as you grow up girls and guys start to realize that they wish they'd stuck with the nice ones and they begin to regret the decsions of their past, as that happens the nice guys finally start to win.

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I dont mean treat her like crap. I mean when a guy (or in my case a girl), is to desperate for you. To the point where he/she is bothering you every five seconds for sh... you dont care about. Be sweet and loving, and nice. Those characteristics are good, very good. But dont let it go to far.
-BB

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Girls broke up with you because they think you're too nice? What?!

Trust me, if they think that's a problem, then they're the problem. You don't want a girl that thinks that. Keep trying. You'll find someone that is compatible with you at some point

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You obviously never been in a relationship. (No offense). Ive broken up with girls because their to nice. Its just an awkward relationship. It just seems like they are too desperate for you. Its a good reason to break up.
-BB

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I disagree completely, nobody can ever be TOO nice. The world needs more nice people and as you grow up girls and guys start to realize that they wish they'd stuck with the nice ones and they begin to regret the decsions of their past, as that happens the nice guys finally start to win.

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I dont mean treat her like crap. I mean when a guy (or in my case a girl), is to desperate for you. To the point where he/she is bothering you every five seconds for sh... you dont care about. Be sweet and loving, and nice. Those characteristics are good, very good. But dont let it go to far.
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Depends on the situation, that seems more clingy than nice. I used to try to hard to be nice to my girlfriends but I realized how stupid that was and grew out of it.

There was this one girl I liked last year and she used to be nice to me and stuff, but then one day, I told a small joke about getting her boyfriend to break up. She took it seriously, and I don't even understand how she knew I said it, because I was in a completely different class than her. Now she completely hates me. She doesn't act that way around me, but I know what she says to other people. All because I said something I didn't even mean. Whatever, I'm over it now, but girls can be bitches, I've unluckily ended up liking a few.

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There was this one girl I liked last year and she used to be nice to me and stuff, but then one day, I told a small joke about getting her boyfriend to break up. She took it seriously, and I don't even understand how she knew I said it, because I was in a completely different class than her. Now she completely hates me. She doesn't act that way around me, but I know what she says to other people. All because I said something I didn't even mean. Whatever, I'm over it now, but girls can be bitches, I've unluckily ended up liking a few.

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First step in getting girls to like you back. You don't ever refer to them as bitches. Ever. Women. They are women.

Girls can be mean, cruel, and crazy. So can guys. Girls are not bitches. Period. I hate that word.

/endrant

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There was this one girl I liked last year and she used to be nice to me and stuff, but then one day, I told a small joke about getting her boyfriend to break up. She took it seriously, and I don't even understand how she knew I said it, because I was in a completely different class than her. Now she completely hates me. She doesn't act that way around me, but I know what she says to other people. All because I said something I didn't even mean. Whatever, I'm over it now, but girls can be bitches, I've unluckily ended up liking a few.

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First step in getting girls to like you back. You don't ever refer to them as bitches. Ever. Women. They are women.

Girls can be mean, cruel, and crazy. So can guys. Girls are not bitches. Period. I hate that word.

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I never actually called her that until I stopped liking her altogether.

I have gone through my whole life without referring to any woman as a bitch to her face or behind her back. I will do so till I die. Women deserve respect.

People who talk about women like that just its a pet peeve of mine. Especially the guys who call girls bitches than fuck them and leave them. You know guys do the same things that they use as examples of why girls are "bitches" and I hate that.

Respect will get you far in life. And understanding girls and guys are very similar psychologically speaking and their actions do not differ much on a grand scale.

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I have gone through my whole life without referring to any woman as a b***h to her face or behind her back. I will do so till I die. Women deserve respect.

People who talk about women like that just its a pet peeve of mine. Especially the guys who call girls bitches than f**k them and leave them. You know guys do the same things that they use as examples of why girls are "bitches" and I hate that.

Respect will get you far in life. And understanding girls and guys are very similar psychologically speaking and their actions do not differ much on a grand scale.

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I can agree on the part that they're actions aren't different, but for guys it's called a good for nothing douchebag.

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I have gone through my whole life without referring to any woman as a b***h to her face or behind her back. I will do so till I die. Women deserve respect.

People who talk about women like that just its a pet peeve of mine. Especially the guys who call girls bitches than f**k them and leave them. You know guys do the same things that they use as examples of why girls are "bitches" and I hate that.

Respect will get you far in life. And understanding girls and guys are very similar psychologically speaking and their actions do not differ much on a grand scale.

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I can agree on the part that they're actions aren't different, but for guys it's called a good for nothing douchebag.

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Actually many guys are applauded for doing the very things that girls are labeled a bitch for doing. Its why I hate being a part of the male sex...and yes I do hate it. I hate men. And I act like a woman. And I really dont give a damn...