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Somebody knows who I am. And if you figure it out, Please dont say it.
Anyways. I Was at a pool party the other day, And We were all pushing eachother into the pool.
So when I Went to Cannonball. My ex-girlfriend pushed me into the girl i like Now. And she fell off the deck. And of course everyone blamed it on me. Cuz my ex girlfriend told them to. Now the girl who I like
Doesnt even talk to me. What do I Do?
had the same sorta situation happen the other day. first, let it blow over. second, apologize in a sincere manner. even though you didnt do it, it is the better thing to do.
I Did... I even tried explaining it to her. It just doesnt WORK
get some revenge on your ex then
find a mutual friend that can explain the situation to her.
thats what i did. \o/\o/\o/Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
she is still a bit mad
she'll come around. just stay apologetic.Quote:
Originally Posted by Confused
yup. she is at least willing to talk to me
o and dont say your ex did it.
Revenge! i like it!
wish ya luck!
The advice I'm about to give you is what I would do in this situation. Get revenge on your ex-GF. Like, if she has a boyfriend right now, tell the boyfriend that your ex-GF is cheating on him, or something like that. But the more important part- if one of your friends is also a friend of the girl you like, get that friend to talk to her. After she comes to her senses, she'll acknowledge that it wasn't you. Wait some time and start flirting with her. And then when you're ready ask her out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
couldnt have said it betterQuote:
Originally Posted by ERBFan2875/WWEFan101
[quote=Toa Tahu the Brickman]couldnt have said it better[/quote:19voya3j]Quote:
Originally Posted by "ERBFan2875/WWEFan101":19voya3j
Thanks bro :)
[quote=ERBFan2875/WWEFan101][quote="Toa Tahu the Brickman":wm1u36ed]couldnt have said it better[/quote:wm1u36ed]Quote:
Originally Posted by "ERBFan2875/WWEFan101":wm1u36ed
Thanks bro :)[/quote:wm1u36ed]
no problem
Doesnt have a boyfriend now, Ill just spread sumthing
To be honest, that's the opposite of what you should do. :| You should be above you Ex, and not swoop down to her level. Revenge may seem like a good option, but you're just going to be lighting the fire to a war that's not needed. So I say forget about the Ex, and focus on trying to be nice and kind to the girl you like. If the Ex interferes, get some of your friends to chase her away. :P
"I shouldn't get revenge. Alright, friends, get revenge on my ex for me! It's better if she hates you and not me! :p", jk. But in all seriousness, I agree.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
Well at least it's not yourself doing the revenge. >_> You're not responsible over what your friends do, as long as you don't do it yourself. :P
Well, that all depends. Tell your friends to get revenge, you're good. Tell them to rob a bank, you'll most likely end up in jail. On a sidenote, I do not know that from experience.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
And that is the most immature thing I have ever heard of. Yea, let's do eye for an eye, and the world turns blind.Quote:
Originally Posted by ERBFan2875/WWEFan101
Now for some REAL advise, not "derp, lets get revenge cause it's cool and I'm a retarded caveman with 0 intelligence".
1: As much as it'll be hard to do, ignore what your ex-gf did. Whether it was intentional or unintentional, it happened. Getting revenge on her, brings you down to her level, which is JUST WHAT SHE WANTS. So ignore it and in fact, ignore that the bitch even exists. 2: Let the crush blow off steam and let the situation calm down, give her a few days. Once she is willing to talk, explain all that happened. Cooler heads will prevail.
3: Apologize for bumping into her even though it wasn't your fault. If you show maturity, then that will win the girl over.
As for the revenge bit, what happens when world gets around to your crush that you set a rumor up? How would that reflect in HER eyes? Not very well in the least.
That is actually a very good idea. That's actually kind of what happened to me. Listen to this guy, his advice will help. As for my side, like he said, DO NOT go for revenge. Besides the fact that it makes you look like a jerk, how will that affect your school life, and more importantly, think, would my friends do it? Even if they would, it's YOUR job to to do the right thing. As for this guest's quote about the caveman. I understand that it's a wrong decision, and I know from experience how hard it is to see something that's infuriating, or doesn't seem morally right. But your just adding fuel to the flames by adding that comment. Now, I'm not angry, and I'm not trying to put you down. I'm just trying to help you out so you could avoid things like that in the future. But you're totally right with everything else. Just, try to be a little more polite, no matter who you're speaking to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
[quote=Sergeant Spike]That is actually a very good idea. That's actually kind of what happened to me. Listen to this guy, his advice will help. As for my side, like he said, DO NOT go for revenge. Besides the fact that it makes you look like a jerk, how will that affect your school life, and more importantly, think, would my friends do it? Even if they would, it's YOUR job to to do the right thing. As for this guest's quote about the caveman. I understand that it's a wrong decision, and I know from experience how hard it is to see something that's infuriating, or doesn't seem morally right. But your just adding fuel to the flames by adding that comment. Now, I'm not angry, and I'm not trying to put you down. I'm just trying to help you out so you could avoid things like that in the future. But you're totally right with everything else. Just, try to be a little more polite, no matter who you're speaking to.[/quote:1ci8znam]Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
That was me. I forgot to put my name.
Whoa whoa fucking WHOA! Don't you dare talk to me like that! I never said "this is the best advice you'll ever get"; I said "this is my opinion". Ever heard of "respect people's opinions"? Cause it's what you're not doing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
[quote=ERBFan2875/WWEFan101]Whoa whoa fucking WHOA! Don't you dare talk to me like that! I never said "this is the best advice you'll ever get"; I said "this is my opinion". Ever heard of "respect people's opinions"? Cause it's what you're not doing.[/quote:o9l785w2]Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Let's bury the hatchet before it's grown.
[quote=ERBFan2875/WWEFan101]Whoa whoa fucking WHOA! Don't you dare talk to me like that! I never said "this is the best advice you'll ever get"; I said "this is my opinion". Ever heard of "respect people's opinions"? Cause it's what you're not doing.[/quote:2bt8vk15]Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Then don't give immature advise like "get revenge". ;).
Ooh, I like it.
If you don't like my advice, don't say a goddamn thing about it. End of story.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kuzco Castiel
Heh, I try to be all nice about it and ya just a pms attack.
Ah wells. Cheers dude.
Guys, seriously. Take it some place else. I can only be lenient for so long.
I actually was ending it. Hence the "cheers dude".Quote:
Originally Posted by Dion
Should this thread be locked?
Probably.
Someone lock it.