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I just broke up with my Boyfriend. Um... It was kinda awkward break up because neither of us are really all that depressed. Like Nate, We are best friends. And well we are here for eachother. But I don't know why but right now there is a pain in my heart. What do I do?
I don't know how much it means coming from me, but a hug can always help :)
Let time pass. you may think that the break up went well but subconsciously, you are hurting because you are parting ways from your current other/lover and that's always painful.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
:( sorry, we can always do that road trip to CanadaQuote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
That makes sense. Oddly enough this feels like physical pain. God the mind sucks.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dead.Pool.Castiel
carry on. as Cast said it will take time but the pain will subside. you will feel better soon
Maybe this summer. haha Yea I know. It was our personalities. I am more of a lone wolf. Not a crowd jumper like him. Sigh. This is just weird for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wumbo
Hope so.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
ok just to be sure. you are not having a heart attack right? no heart conditions?
I'm kidding of course :D
Heart conditions are possible sadly. Runs in my family.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
It's funny how it works. Your heart/chest hurts because of a break up. I think it's a combination of both mental and physical.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
Me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
[quote=Dead.Pool.Castiel]Me.[/quote:k5woxbjx]Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
sigh yea. :<
mine too. hope that is not the case though
funny story. I went to an emergency room for an ear infection and I had to fill out this paper. it asked what conditions do you have or run in your family. by the time I was done only 2 boxes remained unchecked.
I know this is off topic, but I am trying to get a smile on your face. it will help with the pain. :D
Um, chatzy?Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
There's plenty of fish in the sea. If it didn't work out then he obviously wasn't the right one. Be optimistic about it, it's not the end of the world.
How is that supposed to help :( It makes me worry about you now :<Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
That chat request was me
O.o I never said it was.... I just said it hurts. .....Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
It'll be a while but sooner or later you'll be over it. Don't let it stress you out too much.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
um. it took me an hour to fill it out. ok I found it funny. these things run in my family but I have no signs or symptoms. I'm healthy as a ox. and twice as smelly :DQuote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
Alright.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Story time. Since you compare yourself to me and this situation is EXTREMELY similar to Jay and I. When Jay and I broke up it was a mutual thing done mostly to save our friendship because we both realized that dating any longer would be the end of our friendship and our relationship.
We broke up but decided to remain friends. A couple things you have to realize. One it hurts worse than being tazed (and yes I have been). Two its going to be AWKWARD AS HELL for a while. Me and Jay almost didn't make it through the awkward as hell part because well I still loved her, I wanted her back, I was hurting and it was pretty bad, but when you fight through that things get better. Her and I are best friends again like we were when we were in high school, shes moved on with another guy and I'm talking to Amanda and meeting her for a date Tuesday to see how it goes maybe I'll have a girlfriend again, maybe I won't.
Point is it hurts like hell for at least a couple weeks, if it didn't THAT would be weird, this, this is just normal and it sucks but things do get better like they did for me and despite what I thought at the time I am much happier WITHOUT Jay as my girlfriend than I was dating her. Do I still love her? Fuck yeah she was my first true love, my first time, my first lots of things, and thats something you never replace. Would I ever date her again? No, fuck no. She took me for granted, she used me, she tore my heart out on multiple occassions and stomped on it, and her and I just didn't fit together anymore at the end, too much fighting too much stress when we started dating at 18 we were perfect, she needed a guy like me and I needed a girl like her but people grow up things change.
So it hurts, it gets better like it did with me, I still love Jay I'm her best friend, I am going to her wedding in a couple years and being the Maid of Honor :p
Because you are a lesbian Nate <3Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
It's Gunna Take Time They Are All Right, But You Have To Make The Best Of The Time That You Have! I Regret A Few Things And I Really Can't Forgive Myself For Them, But You Gotta Keep YOur Head High, Shoulders Back And Take Things On. Sure You'll Get Knocked Down A few Times But its Not How Many times you Get Knocked Down Its About How Many Times You Bounce Back Up!
I have always been knocked down.Quote:
Originally Posted by Equinox
Then Always Bounce Back Up. There's Not Much You Can Do But You've Got Friends Here And In Life, And I Know That I'm Always Gunna Be Here If You Need Me, I'm Just A PM Away Kid :)Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
... alright.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
I'm always there for ya Chi. If you ever need anything, I'll be on Skype, Chatzy, and .com ;)
Think of Tubthumping by cumbawhumba when you get knocked down. it always makes me smile but hey what do I know. anyways break ups always hurt whether things are fine or not because you have an attachment and i mean sometimes that emotional pain can manifest to affect you physically. and then think of all the people that are there for you. though you only know us via the internet and some more personal it's still not the same. it also helps to vent. never bottle stuff up because it becomes harder and you will end up exploding on someone. I know we haven't personally talked but hey I'm always there for someone in need. I'm good for more than just rapping in You vs the person above or video game raps XD.
That was me ^^ don't know why it came up as guest but it's deathofasalesman
to get your name to appear on this section you gave to click post reply and put your nake in the username field. for future referanceQuote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Ok Thank you.
And exploding Chis are not good :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Does it end with goo all over people? Sorry bad joke. but hopefully my words helped you a bit.
Thank you.Quote:
Originally Posted by DeathOfASalesman
BTW love your Default Pic. It's bad ass.
My Default pic?Quote:
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The one with the gasmask that says Lilychi.Quote:
Originally Posted by LilyChi
Oh my avi. I made that on <3Quote:
Originally Posted by DeathOfASalesman