I don't know how this is gonna sound to people but lately I have gotten confused. Why do people like/love me so much? I don't exactly see how being too nice is a good thing. :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
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I don't know how this is gonna sound to people but lately I have gotten confused. Why do people like/love me so much? I don't exactly see how being too nice is a good thing. :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
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Originally Posted by LilyChi
amazingly nice people get love back.
you are the nicest person here.
we all love you.
period.
;)
:facepalm: I'm starting to believe you're just an attention-whore...
yo gtfo foolQuote:
Originally Posted by Guest
she was just asking.
you do realize she was in a bad breakup and is very emotional. DONT CALL HER A WHORE DIPSHIT!
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Originally Posted by Guest
Tad bit of an over reaction to what was a very legit statement. One which I personally don't believe but could completely understand how others would believe it so maybe take a chill pill and relax.
I love you because your my little sister :)
yeah sorry its just that i really care for her and i dont want her to get upset again because of some peeps calling her an attention whore.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
Its just an opinion...free world people can think what they want. I don't want her to get upset either but if she did I would tell her its fine so a couple people are wrong about her unfortunately thats life.
People think I am a drug dealing pot head, I AM NOT, I could get upset by it. I used to. But its life you move on, let the haters hate.
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FUCK YOU BITCH! (jk)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
XD
yes i know that its just an opinion and i shouldn't have yelled but it just bugged me that people have to be so negative on her after her breakup.
Unfortunately I agree. It's not what I ever though I would say but it's not false. Whenever she feels sad the rest of the forum acts like he's the second coming of Christ and ends up just being huge kiss asses. If somebody like Wumbo wasn't happy not NEARLY as many people would console him. And why? Because Chi is the only girl on the site. Nothing against you Chi I love you a lot but its just gotten to the point where there are like 50 topics about your depression. And it kinda bugs me after a while. Mods PLEASE do not look at who this is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
The mods here won't abuse their power, or they shouldn't anyways I was supposed to be a PS mod back in the day and I never would have abused power like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Anyways I don't think thats really her fault its the fact that its a bunch of teenage guys and the occasional girl, of course this is how they gonna act. If Wumbo was upset I would be the first to console him and do anything I could to help, I'm also older and over the OMG GIRL part of life (this is not an insult its a fact of life I went through that stage)
You also have to understand that it's not Chi's decision that everyone treats her like she's the queen of the universe. I remember a couple times I asked why people like me and no one said I was an attention whore. Just saying. Point is, don't blame Chi for everyone else's reaction.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Attention whore as in, she makes a hundred posts a week about "Why do people like me so much" "I shouldn't be a mod, I don't deserve it" "I shouldn't be liked, I don't deserve it." She does all of it. Don't get me wrong, I like Chi, I think she's cool, but her "Why do people like me" posts/topics are getting older than "I'm leaving" topics.
Well Chi, I love you because you are a person to be loved.
You do have a point, but I only remember one other time where she made a thread like this one and it was quite some time ago. Then again, I'm not the greatest at remembering things :laugh:Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
I'll avoid the argument and obvious trolling. and just say I like you Chi cause you are a genuine good person. you appologise when do something wrong. and you do your best to help others out.
I see no troll I see valid points...I can understand that opinion. Do I agree with it no, but is it a valid thought process yes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
I see trolling as derailing a topic for no apparnt reason then to either bully someone or to push their agenda. there is no need to call Chi an attention whore. when someone faces depression lots of questions are asked. its best not to go over board on someone and call them attention whores. and to just answer the questions. honestly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
But they were being honest. Honestly...Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
no. they were being rude. read the whole post not just the last wordQuote:
Originally Posted by Honest Hank
Sir Kain, how am I trolling? My honest opinion, is Chi is being an attention whore. Doesn't mean I don't like her, I like Chi! She's like my sis.
you're being a jerk. you know Chi is in a depression. and you know she takes everything seriously. you wouldn't call someone in a wheelchair a lazy ass would you? same thing. you're purposely throwing out negative comments to get a rise out of her or those who call themselves Chi's freind. that mr. anonymous is how you;re trollingQuote:
Originally Posted by Guest
He's speaking his mind...everybody has opinions.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
of course they do. but usually opinions are shared when the subject is brought up. the subject of being an attention whore was brought up on only one topic. not this one. that is like bringing up abortion when someone is talking about peach cobbler.Quote:
Originally Posted by Opinionated Oswald
Well that makes sense. Carry on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
:facepalm: ITS A DAMN OPINION. Leave it alone. Drop it.
Do not even bring me into this conversation.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
and as I said. opinons are good. and are best stated when the subject is brought up. the subject being Chi's curiosity on why she is liked. not if she is an attention whore. in other words someone wanted to be a jerk to Chi. now this would be dropped. if people stopped questioning me on my opinion on the trolling. we can continue. but that is not the purpose of this topic.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain.. why r u being a di--?
damn it. that was me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
I agree with Kain in the sense, everyone move on.
:confused: I kind of thought this was a place where freedom of speech was not suppressed in the name of one user. I get it, Chi has depression and I know how that feels as I have been through it as well. Chi is rather important to me, I love her she's my sister and I wouldn't do anything to hurt her or see her be hurt.
With that said, it's unfair to her and to anyone on the board to suppress opinion and free thought because in the real world not everyone is going to like you :fyi:
Seriously, you and I agree that Chi is not an attention whore, right. I am sure most of the forum does, but some of the forum has another opinion. This thread is not being derailed as it is literally about why people love her so much. Well there you go...some people posted why they love her. Some posted their honest opinion. If honest opinion was not wanted than the thread should not have been posted in a forum where people are allowed to give honest opinions freely and anonymously, am I right?
I don't understand the blind suppression of free thought for the sake of one member. I mean hell your quick to say this is trolling but how? THIS VERY TOPIC ASKS WHY...these anonymous posters simply answered a question.
My basic point is this. We all live in the real world. A place where MANY people will hate us, and many people will love us. That's how it works, that is life. We can not shield each other from the haters, let the haters hate and move on from it. I know that many people here do not like me, and I know this post will make others dislike me as well but I am simply posting my thoughts, I can not hide who I am. This is me. That is them, deal with it and move on. Get over the fact that not everyone is going to like everyone that is not reality.
To be clear, I DO NOT AGREE WITH THIS I DO NOT THINK CHI IS AN ATTENTION WHORE I TALK TO HER DAILY I KNOW WHAT SHES GOING THROUGH AND I LOVE HER FOREVER BUT I THINK PEOPLE HAVE THE RIGHT TO VOICE THEIR OPINIONS FREELY!
I do not agree with what you say but I shall defend to the death your right to say it.
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Originally Posted by God of Kaoss
This sums up my 3 paragraph rant in a nutshell thank you my dear friend :)
You're welcome. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
@Person Who Didn't Want The Mods To See Their Username: Mods wouldn't abuse their power... You did nothing wrong.
@Chi: I like you because your extremely nice, I can't recall one time you made me angry.
@Everybody: I see where some of you are coming from with this whole "attention-whore" stuff, but I don't agree with this at all. And there are NO trolls here. It's their opinion. It doesn't matter how jerkish it sounds.
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Originally Posted by BobbyBobber
This is essentially what I said and feel in less words thank you for making my rants sound smarter and shorter :drinking: your da shit BB!! lol.
Great minds think alike!Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
I like how everyone is defending opinions. by dismissing mine :wat: way to go on defending your own opinions guys. your doing a great job at being hypocrites.
Please sir tell me you are not being serious right now...nobody has dismissed your "opinions" as you say we have dismissed your call of other peoples opinions as flaming and trollish in nature.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kain
In fact the people you claim to disagree with your opinions actually very much agree with your opinions, we have all stated taht Chi is indeed not an attention whore but that those who believe otherwise HAVE A RIGHT TO EXPRESS THEIR OPINION.
Alright. Sigh.
1st.I was really Really really depressed when I made this.
2nd. I do not make many threads on my depression.
3rd. Yes I am an attention whore. I have a need for attention just like any other creature.
4th. I am sorry about the whole "I ain't good enough " I put myself down thing. Like I have said I have depression also I am female and I have grown up with people(my mother mainly) who had a similar attitude. AKA Pessimistic
5th. I am sorry I never meant for this attention whorish side of me to get so outta hand.
6th. Call me what you wish. Fat, bitch attention whore. Just realize there is a human on this side of the screen and that I have feelings. I don't care if that is what I am. I have feelings and I have been hurt by your words.
7th. I respect your opinion.
8th. Yes As others said I didn't ask for everyone to like me. I did nothing more then be kind.
9th. I am very very sorry for the way I have been here on this site.
10th. I understand where you are coming from.
11th. Yes this made my depression worse.
12th. Say what you wish. Like I said I don't know how people will react. Hell call me more of an attention whore for explaining all this. Its your opinion dearie.
13th. Sending you guys much love.
(P.S I may not be completely back yet. Sorry.^^')
dem bitches hurting chi's feelings better watch their backs.
o.O