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Today.. one of my best friends (easily in my top 3 friends).. committed suicide! :(((( I don't know what to say, what to do, or anything! He said he was suicidal! I didn't do anything to stop it! It's my fault isn't it.. it is... ;( I.. i just need help. I'm at a loss for words.
Look, can you explain what happened to your friend during the past months or so? Did you guys argue? Was he bullied at all?
It's not your fault your friend committed suicide.
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Originally Posted by In Due TIme.. In Due Time..
may he rest in peace.
it is not your fault. your friend just lost out. he gave up. not you. it is sad. and I am truly sorry.
your friend is smart. Don't worry about him, it's what HE wanted. I thought the same as him once, it's a choice. Just forget about it.
Thaks guys. :( I didn't believe him. He was always.. smiling when he said he was suicidal. So, I thought he was trying to scare me or joke around. Apparently not. :/
Easier said than done, my anonymous friend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
It was your friend's decision. Perhaps something really tragic happened you don't know about. I have BEST friends that don't tell me what's wrong sometimes. If anything, he had guts. I wouldn't be able to leave my friends and family. I'm sorry about your friend. I know what it's like to lose one to suicidal thoughts. I just want you to know, I have your back. If you ever need anything, I'm here for you.
Nobody can ever blame themselves for someone elses suicide. That was a choice your friend made there was nothing you could do to stop it and that I assure you. I have plenty of friends who have thought about it and a few who have committed, one of those friends I saved once, two weeks later she tried again, I did everything in my power to stop her, it wasnt until SHE sought councilling and made a decision for herself to change her life that she stopped being suicidal and changed her life.
You couldn't have done anything to stop it. Now you just have to hope your friend rests in peace and try to move on. For me I move on through writing, find what works for you. Music. Art. Writing. Whatever it is and envelope yourself in it and try to get past it. It will take time but you can do it. I promise.
Here's something that might cheer you up (if you believe in heaven)
It's comforting to know that he/she is looking over you, and looking out for you. Making sure nothing like what he/she had to deal with happens to you.
>You couldn't have done anything to stop it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gh0sT
He could.
In lesser words yesQuote:
Originally Posted by Guest