Help!Need advice on a hot girl!
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Help!Need advice on a hot girl!
first off be nice
second don't stalk her.
now find out if you and the girl have a mutual freind and have them introduce you to her. it should be easy to get to know her from there.
if you don't have a mutual freind. TALK TO HER. seriously its a fact men are intimidated by beautiful women. so anyone who talks to them is already way ahead then any other man.
get to know her. find out what she likes. anything about her. ask her out. its not that hard. if the girl finds you the slightest bit interesting. she take you up on it.
best of luck to you
simple: Be yourself, don't be afraid and make sure to always tell her the truth.
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just be yourself bro, don't be nervous
This may all sound cliche but its very much the truth, just be yourself thats the most important thing. Be yourself and be confident. I don't care if your a dick, a douche, or the nicest guy in the world stick with what makes you, well you and be confident in who you are when your around the girl or talking to her.
Why is it that douche's always get the girl and nice guys never win. Its certainly not personality. The real reason is douchebags are confident, usually overly so and nice guys, generally aren't the most confident people in my experience. No girl wants a guy who is unaware of how amazing they are it gets old telling them how much they love you or that you don't have to worry about losing them yada yada.
If your able to be confident in who you are and be yourself not some fake (girls see right through that trust me) than you are way ahead of the game. Does that mean you'll get the girl? No. The girl has to see something in you too, but does that make you more likely to get the girl and is it really the only thing you can control in this situation? Yes.
My last three girlfriends have all fallen for me because of one thing, I wasn't afraid to be myself. I am a dorky, nerdy, stupid, foolish, childish, immature, nice, sweet, generous, caring guy. I play that and I am confident in myself I know how fucking AWESOME I am.
The rest of the factors are out of your control. You can't control if the girl is attracted to you, physically, or if the girl likes who you are personality wise. But you should never change for a girl. I tried that for my first love and it exploded in a fit of anger rage and heart break. Be yourself, your awesome and if the girl you ask doesnt see that shes not right for you and she ain't worth it so move on.
I hope you listen to this, it took me far too long and one to many completely shattered heart to figure this out myself.
Like everyone else has said; Just be yourself. That's it. There's no "Secret" to make someone like you. You just be yourself, and the rest is beyond your control.
I have a question of my own for this. If the girl is friends with you but you don't really talk much, and she is kinda out of your league by a little bit, is it at all awkward to ask her out?
Probably. I would say talk to her more often, hang out with her and such before asking her out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Uprising
Also it's kind hard to hang out with her when a group of about 15 girls are around her at almost all times. Shes almost never on her own.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dead.Pool.Castiel
Try and keep an eye on patterns. There will almost always be a time when she's alone...and no, the bathroom doesn't count, lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Uprising
Well it is quite tough to find a time but I will try harder. Maybe after school I can find her when shes waiting for a ride or something.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest
Don't be TOO friendly, you don't wanna enter the dreaded Friend Zone.
Also, something I've found out works, don't keep who you like a secret. It helps when you tell trusted friends, for they can help you get closer to her/push you to ask her out or something.
Plus, you should ask her out soonish after you start too know her.
-BB
No offense but for me telling friends is a BADDDD idea. In the past when I've told them they've been all "Ewwww you like her?" and crap. And I would make a move before friendzoning happens. It's happened before and let me tell you, it ain't fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guest