Transgender

Transgender.. that's how i call myself.
I have been thinking about how much i wanted to be a girl for a few years allready.... But recently I can't think of anything but being a girl... Everytime i look at a girl i die of jealousy thinking 'I wish i was like that'.
I've never been really comfortable around people because i think they will think i'm weird.. i think it's because i can't be myself.. since i don't see myself as myself. I've been crossdressing in front o the mirror for a while too and it feelt right, and it also felt right to feel something on my chest that i considered as missing before.

I will tell my parents about this.. but i was wondering if any of you guys had experience with this or could gie me handy tips for the comming out..

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Originally Posted by Thumb

Transgender.. that's how i call myself.
I have been thinking about how much i wanted to be a girl for a few years allready.... But recently I can't think of anything but being a girl... Everytime i look at a girl i die of jealousy thinking 'I wish i was like that'.
I've never been really comfortable around people because i think they will think i'm weird.. i think it's because i can't be myself.. since i don't see myself as myself. I've been crossdressing in front o the mirror for a while too and it feelt right, and it also felt right to feel something on my chest that i considered as missing before.

I will tell my parents about this.. but i was wondering if any of you guys had experience with this or could gie me handy tips for the comming out..

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Non-serious comment :

[spoiler:330dfplm]You : MOM, My girlfriend's pregnant!
Mom : WAT
You : Jk, i'm transgender
Mom: phew, i thought worse[/spoiler:330dfplm]

Serious comment :

You should just come out naturally, don't "memorize" a script, just be yourself and admit, they're your parents, they'll love you no matter what.

Be who you want to be. This transition might be hard, but just be who you are and what you want to be, and you'll be fine!

I associate myself more with the female gender as well but the way I see it - there is no such thing as gender. Gender roles have no basis in modern society and aren't really important. Sure, you can make a graph and say where you fit in with your relative manliness or girliness but it just doesn't work. Be who you want to be and look past gender. You know, in some cultures there are more than just two genders, in some Thai societies there are five, others none at all.

Be you. If you are uncomfortable you should make yourself comfortable. Just tell your parents you want to be you

Ain't nothing wrong with that.

I get that people feel uncomfortable in their own skin, so you should do what you think is right to be happy.

Good luck with your parents, wish the best.

thank all of you.. that made me feel much more secure about all this..
and YN, thank you for the laughs:)

Yeah just be you. Do you want to have an operation?

Whatever happens, I support you 100%, man. There's a lot of people that want the same thing, but don't have the courage to actually do it. I'm proud of you for confessing this.

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Originally Posted by Thumb

Transgender.. that's how i call myself.
I have been thinking about how much i wanted to be a girl for a few years allready.... But recently I can't think of anything but being a girl... Everytime i look at a girl i die of jealousy thinking 'I wish i was like that'.
I've never been really comfortable around people because i think they will think i'm weird.. i think it's because i can't be myself.. since i don't see myself as myself. I've been crossdressing in front o the mirror for a while too and it feelt right, and it also felt right to feel something on my chest that i considered as missing before.

I will tell my parents about this.. but i was wondering if any of you guys had experience with this or could gie me handy tips for the comming out..

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Well as a fellow Trans* woman, I'd be glad to help you however I could :D
Tips on coming out, passing, whatever you need.
I know how you kinda feel, I can relate, I get really dysphoric over my voice & my body too especially.
I support you One Hundred & Twenty Seven Percent :D