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more importantly, don't let them get to you, and keep us filled in so that we can help however possible.
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Thanatos I love you man, I am so sorry. Just know it gets better, it truly does. You just need to make it through this for now but things always get better.
I dunno what to tell you I am slightly disgusted at what happened...
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Did you talk to doctor yet?How did it go?
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Man, that sucks a lot, like a LOT. I support you a million percent, for real. This may be awkward, but whatever. I love you, and a lot of other forumers, and it hurts to see so much pain within and outside the forum. Here's hoping that you can handle this, and your mother and father will someday "accept" you. If you EVER need to talk to me, please, just PM me. I will more then happily support and help you out. Here's hoping you and your parental units can make amends and peace. Love ya man. :D
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Thanks guys, I'll speak with the doctor in the morning. Don't bring the bible into this, it isn't about religion (I'm atheist), it's about my family accepting me.
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Wow.. tell your parents to stick it up their ass.
"Jesus died for our sins and this is how you repay him?"
I'm sorry, that line was so bad it seemed fake and made up someone would say that. If you believe in God, God created men in his image. He wouldn't have created you gay, if he wouldn't accept it, am I right?
Sorry Thanatos. This totally discouraged me from telling my parents. Sighhh
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Originally Posted by The Codfather
Wow.. tell your parents to stick it up their ass.
"Jesus died for our sins and this is how you repay him?"
I'm sorry, that line was so bad it seemed fake and made up someone would say that. If you believe in God, God created men in his image. He wouldn't have created you gay, if he wouldn't accept it, am I right?
Sorry Thanatos. This totally discouraged me from telling my parents. Sighhh
You're gay?
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You should go ahead, they might react a whole lot better.
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Originally Posted by Jka12002
On a serious note it really shouldnt matter if someone is gay or not. Im Christian myself and i could really give a rats ass if someone is gay, humans are humans. Hell there is even a gay pastor somewhere, i saw him on tv during the prop 8 debates.
(The pic i posted was just for laughs just incase any sensitive fucks want to start shit.)
You must be new here. ;)
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Originally Posted by Jka12002
On a serious note it really shouldnt matter if someone is gay or not. Im Christian myself and i could really give a rats ass if someone is gay, humans are humans. Hell there is even a gay pastor somewhere, i saw him on tv during the prop 8 debates.
(The pic i posted was just for laughs just incase any sensitive fucks want to start shit.)
That's what I think too, respect others no matter who they are.
Don't worry about your parents it's your life, they are just there to guide not judge or be shitty
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Ok, if I was in your position and the parents reacted like that, I would seriously leave and never talk to them again. They seemed just really ignorant about the entire thing.
Anyways, I support you either way, I hope everything turns out OK in the end.
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@Myke: Spartica came out in the confession thread. He says he is bi-sexual.
I'm proud of you Cogs. Your parents are being a-holes about this.
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Originally Posted by Volvo
@Myke: Spartica came out in the confession thread. He says he is bi-sexual.
I'm proud of you Cogs. Your parents are being a-holes about this.
Oh wow, I missed that.
Well iIm proud of Spartica and Cogs :D.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:384f3lng]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:384f3lng]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:384f3lng]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:384f3lng]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:3vdgv29d]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:3vdgv29d]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:3vdgv29d]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:3vdgv29d]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
I don't get families that do this. Unconditional love, what happened to this? If my kids end up being gay, transgender or whatever I will love them regardless.
the best example of the most awesome parent is Burt Hummel from Glee. Kurt came out to his Dad and his Dad accepted and embraced it. In one episode where Burt and Kurt move in with Finn and his Mom, Finn is throwing a fit and is throwing around the word "faggy" and Burt hears this and tears Finn a new asshole.
THAT is the best example of unconditional love. I wish all parents could be like Burt Hummel.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Togashi Castiel-Sama
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:2pmdigs8]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:2pmdigs8]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:2pmdigs8]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:2pmdigs8]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
I don't get families that do this. Unconditional love, what happened to this? If my kids end up being gay, transgender or whatever I will love them regardless.
the best example of the most awesome parent is Burt Hummel from Glee. Kurt came out to his Dad and his Dad accepted and embraced it. In one episode where Burt and Kurt move in with Finn and his Mom, Finn is throwing a fit and is throwing around the word "faggy" and Burt hears this and tears Finn a new a**hole.
THAT is the best example of unconditional love. I wish all parents could be like Burt Hummel.
^^ I know sweetheart. Apparently due to Nate's over protectiveness over yet to exist children they are gonna have to admit they are straight to us. lol. Otherwise we are assuming they aren't apparently. lol I guess either way We will love them. Doesn't really bother me. We both are very Lgbtqh approving.( Lesbian gay bi questioning hetrosexual )
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LOL!!!!!!! Omg, that's too funny.
"mum...dad...I'm straight"
"WHAT?! WE MUST CURE YOU TO BE GAY!"
lawlz.
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Originally Posted by Togashi Castiel-Sama
LOL!!!!!!! Omg, that's too funny.
"mum...dad...I'm straight"
"WHAT?! WE MUST CURE YOU TO BE GAY!"
lawlz.
Placed in siggy lol yes.
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Good Lord take Uprisings advice and gtfo of there. I'm sorry and I respect you greatly but your family is literally retarded.
If I was gay and my family did this (my family I hope would be accepting) I would yell at their asses and leave.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Togashi Castiel-Sama
LOL!!!!!!! Omg, that's too funny.
"mum...dad...I'm straight"
"WHAT?! WE MUST CURE YOU TO BE GAY!"
lawlz.
Placed in siggy lol yes.
Awesome. :laugh:
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Some parents give you Unconditional Love*
* = so long as you believe the same things they do, don't question them or any of their actions no matter how ridiculous, and basically be them but in kid form.
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UPDATE
[spoiler:pyuh46rh]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:pyuh46rh]
I'm pissed.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
UPDATE
[spoiler:3loh61ao]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:3loh61ao]
I'm pissed.
that's...harsh, i feel sorry for you.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by gosick
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
UPDATE
[spoiler:x75acpe1]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:x75acpe1]
I'm pissed.
that's...harsh, i feel sorry for you.
I know man. :(
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Re: I'm coming out to family
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:2aeqm39m]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:2aeqm39m]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:2aeqm39m]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:2aeqm39m]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...
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Quote:
Originally Posted by gosick
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:jsybbafv]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:jsybbafv]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:jsybbafv]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:jsybbafv]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...
Dayum.
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Re: I'm coming out to family
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
Quote:
Originally Posted by gosick
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chi
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
This is how the conversation went:
[spoiler:2ua91cfo]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:2ua91cfo]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.
Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:2ua91cfo]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:2ua91cfo]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.
when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...
Dayum.
i guess i am a bit girly though, i don't do much sport (because skating/surfing are apparanetly not sports...)i only really watch romance animes and read romance mangas/fanfictions, but on the plus side i could hospitalize a person with my sarcasm and i am sometimes called the sadist among my group of friends.(story for another day) ^.^
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Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)
this may either release a bit of the load, or you may be digging a deeper grave, it's your choice really.
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Re: I'm coming out to family
Quote:
Originally Posted by gosick
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)
this may either release a bit of the load, or you may be digging a deeper grave, it's your choice really.
Yeah...
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Wow....your parents are....wow.....
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
Yeah.
We Love You !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
UPDATE
[spoiler:2bxur9x9]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:2bxur9x9]
I'm pissed.
That sucks man. Your parets seem like real jerks.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Cogs
UPDATE
[spoiler:1tljbdyk]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:1tljbdyk]
I'm pissed.
;u; * hug?*
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I don't care if people don't like homosexuality. People have their own preferences and no one should force any one person to like something. However it gets on my nerves when people are THIS arrogant to think that homosexuality is a disease. It's not. Personally I don't know what to call it because if I say it's a way of life it might not be true and whatever else. Natural or not, what's so wrong with it? They're not killing anyone (not any more than heterosexuals), they're not discriminating (again, not any more than heterosexuals), the only thing that they're doing is not being part of the social norm. It's simply that and only that. Being against or not part of the social norm already gives you a bunch of flak. John Stuart Mill said "We tend to accept whatever is usual as natural" and that's where we get the idea that social norms are natural. I might get smacked for thinking this or whatever but for sexual reproducing beings homosexuality doesn't seem "natural" if you look through it in that way. But whatever. This is becoming a rant isn't this? Sorry.
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Cogs buddy, again a word of advice, gtfo out of there. Seriously. Do you have family that supports you, because you should see if you can go crash there. If not just literally gtfo out of there for a while. You don' t want to live in that horrible enviroment
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No offense dude, but your parents are the biggest assholes that I've ever heard of.
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None taken, I agree. Thanks guys though I'm not ready to move out just yet.
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some of my iq just dropped after seeing what your parents said.
that really sucks man. :/
hope your parents fucking apologize after they realize how retarded they are being.
