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    Re: 15 and have a kid

    Here's an ok option. Ask your parents. Since you've told me that your parents know and aren't mad, ask them to take care!

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    Re: 15 and have a kid

    That's the thing. They DONT CARE. They said I fucked up,I take care of it. I respect their decision of me fucking up so doing it myself,but like I have said it's hard. I may consider...putting....him up adoption. I dont know. I just dont know. And if you guys were the one with the kids you wouldnt be making these decisions so easily.


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    I understand that I don't understand

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spartica4Real
    That's the thing. They DONT CARE. They said I fucked up,I take care of it. I respect their decision of me fucking up so doing it myself,but like I have said it's hard. I may consider...putting....him up adoption. I dont know. I just dont know. And if you guys were the one with the kids you wouldnt be making these decisions so easily.
    Trust me, I'm sure we wouldn't.
    and again, sorry for what I said about #1, it was how I was raised, I promise. I have nothing against underaged parents, but I have been told by my parents time and time again not to do it. Again, I'm sorry.

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    And also I love Paige(my gf),I love her alot. I dont wanna make the wrong decision and lose her.


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    Re: 15 and have a kid

    Quote Originally Posted by Guest
    Quote Originally Posted by Spartica4Real
    That's the thing. They DONT CARE. They said I fucked up,I take care of it. I respect their decision of me fucking up so doing it myself,but like I have said it's hard. I may consider...putting....him up adoption. I dont know. I just dont know. And if you guys were the one with the kids you wouldnt be making these decisions so easily.
    Trust me, I'm sure we wouldn't.
    and again, sorry for what I said about #1, it was how I was raised, I promise. I have nothing against underaged parents, but I have been told by my parents time and time again not to do it. Again, I'm sorry.
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    ok man. I know what you're going through. the decision to put a child up for adoption is a tough one. and its something you should discuss with you GF. but if you truly do not want to lose your child, then tough it out. its hard I know. but you'll get by. you and you gf. your parents may not want to help, but ask them for advise. a good parent always gives their child advise. and if not, always try and sneak out advise. ask them what they did with you in certain situations. ask your gf's parents, ask friends parents, ask friends who are parents. to use an old adage, it takes a village to raise a child. good luck my friend.
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    Re: 15 and have a kid

    Quote Originally Posted by Kain
    ok man. I know what you're going through. the decision to put a child up for adoption is a tough one. and its something you should discuss with you GF. but if you truly do not want to lose your child, then tough it out. its hard I know. but you'll get by. you and you gf. your parents may not want to help, but ask them for advise. a good parent always gives their child advise. and if not, always try and sneak out advise. ask them what they did with you in certain situations. ask your gf's parents, ask friends parents, ask friends who are parents. to use an old adage, it takes a village to raise a child. good luck my friend.
    Thanks for some advice that works in my situation,man. I may try to sneak it out of them.


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    Re: 15 and have a kid

    Just don't leave the kid.

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    I can't even imagine how hard this is for you and your gf to go through. There isn't much you can do but just go through with it. Do your best with your studies. If your parents won't even offer advice, there are other ways to seek it. Counsellors at school, etc. I wish you the best of luck with this, I have heard raising a child is such a joy. It's hard work, but it's a labour of love. I wish I could offer better advice, but there really isn't. This is the kind of thing you take day to day, there is no real planning except for you to ensure you graduate.

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