I'm coming out to family

[LAWLzoR]

Some parents give you Unconditional Love*

* = so long as you believe the same things they do, don't question them or any of their actions no matter how ridiculous, and basically be them but in kid form.

[Moonjik]

UPDATE

[spoileryuh46rh]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoileryuh46rh]

I'm pissed.

[gosick]

UPDATE

[spoiler:3loh61ao]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler:3loh61ao]

I'm pissed.

that's...harsh, i feel sorry for you.

[Moonjik]

UPDATE

[spoiler75acpe1]So, after I was dragged to church this morning my mother and father phoned up Doctor Joseph and told him to come "immediately". When the doc arrived we all sat down in a room and he asked what's the matter and then my dad said "he's gay", pointing to me and my mum burst out into tears. Doctor Joseph looked at me sympathetically and then my dad kept on ranting off about how "this was the one thing that made him think he'd failed as a parent," and that "he'd rather I'd have gotten a crackpot whore pregnant than be a 'queer'" and this made me really pissed off so I started yelling at them both and it turned into an argument with Doctor Joseph just sitting there looking really awkward and out of place, knowing that he shouldn't be there. Then my mum starts asking me those awkward on the spot questions while still crying, "have you ever been with a guy?" "have you ever kissed a guy?", "have you ever had a girlfriend?" blah blah blah and then Doctor Joseph asked them to leave the room and told me that he'd dealt with this kind of thing before and how they'll come around eventually and that they'll accept me soon enough (I just nodded, even though I knew it wasn't true). I mean, I like Doctor Joseph and all but he's way too optimistic. Then Doctor Joseph called my parents back in and told them that there was no 'cure' for homosexuality and all the stuff they should have known and they were pissed. After he left, my dad grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled to me that I am straight and never to bring this up again or else I was out of the house.[/spoiler75acpe1]

I'm pissed.

that's...harsh, i feel sorry for you.

I know man.

[gosick]

This is how the conversation went:

[spoiler:2aeqm39m]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won't hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I'm gay,"
"...what?"
"I'm gay,"
...
"I don't know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn't know,"
"You don't hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you're not gay, you're just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I've been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you're no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You're just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can't! This isn't something that can be cured,"
"We'll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What's he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you're an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:2aeqm39m]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.

Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:2aeqm39m]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:2aeqm39m]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.

when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...

[Moonjik]

This is how the conversation went:

[spoiler:jsybbafv]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won&#39;t hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I&#39;m gay,"
"...what?"
"I&#39;m gay,"
...
"I don&#39;t know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn&#39;t know,"
"You don&#39;t hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you&#39;re not gay, you&#39;re just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I&#39;ve been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you&#39;re no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You&#39;re just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can&#39;t! This isn&#39;t something that can be cured,"
"We&#39;ll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What&#39;s he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you&#39;re an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:jsybbafv]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.

Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:jsybbafv]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:jsybbafv]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.

when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...

Dayum.

[gosick]

This is how the conversation went:

[spoiler:2ua91cfo]"Mum, dad, I need to talk to you,"
"What is it?"
"Promise me you won&#39;t hate me,"
...
"Promise,"
"We promise, son,"
*take deep breath*
"I&#39;m gay,"
"...what?"
"I&#39;m gay,"
...
"I don&#39;t know if you already knew but..."
"No, boy, we didn&#39;t know,"
"You don&#39;t hate me, right?"
...
"Right?!"
"Son, you&#39;re not gay, you&#39;re just running around with gay people who told you that!"
"No, I&#39;ve been gay since as long as I can remember,"
(my mother bursts out into tears)
"Our lord gave his life for your sins and this is how you repay him, you&#39;re no gay!"
"Yes I am,"
"You&#39;re just going through a phase, we can cure it,"
"No we can&#39;t! This isn&#39;t something that can be cured,"
"We&#39;ll call Doctor Joseph [my doctor] in the morning,"
"What&#39;s he gonna do, huh?!"
"Be quiet, you&#39;re an embarrassment!"
"Good!"[/spoiler:2ua91cfo]
Then I left, I saw my sisters at the top of the stairs. I didn't say anything to them but I know they'll understand.

Oh sweetie. I know how you feel. When I came out to my mom and sister it went like this.
[spoiler:2ua91cfo]"Hey mom. I like girls."
"What?"
"Yea"
"You like wanna kiss them?"
"YEa..."
"You are disgusting christine."
Sister: "OMG ewwwwwww"[/spoiler:2ua91cfo]
I just walked away as I suddenly became a Gossip topic after that :<
* Hugs Thantos and throws cookies around for everyone.* We love you buddeh.

when i read chis one i remembered; thats how it went with me telling my family that i was straight XD (replace the 'you are disgusting' and 'omg ewwwww' with; 'good one.' and 'wait, come again?'),some of my friends are very nasty people...

Dayum.

i guess i am a bit girly though, i don't do much sport (because skating/surfing are apparanetly not sports...)i only really watch romance animes and read romance mangas/fanfictions, but on the plus side i could hospitalize a person with my sarcasm and i am sometimes called the sadist among my group of friends.(story for another day) ^.^

[Moonjik]

Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)

[gosick]

Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)

this may either release a bit of the load, or you may be digging a deeper grave, it's your choice really.

[Moonjik]

Coolio! Maybe I'll tell my parents I'm really bi if it makes them feel better(?)

this may either release a bit of the load, or you may be digging a deeper grave, it's your choice really.

Yeah...